This mother may have little choice. If she "allows" him to shirk his responsibility as a father and husband in supporting or at least help in the supporting of the family. If she had a choice or influence in the matter I would have to believe a mother would do everything she could to get the dental help and the educational support for child or children.Cilghal wrote:Speaking of his family, it is my understanding that Bob has a very large extended family. The number of different IPs that look at Atalk on a daily basis suggests either he can't even get his family to care about the issues there or they are so embarrassed they do not want to know what their relative is up to. One can't help but wonder if his wife fails to read what he writes. What mother would allow her husband to write about those young women the way Bob does?
Wages being what they are in that part of the state I seriously doubt if she could make enough to make up for Bob's failure as husband and father. Bob really typifies the old saying about some men in that area. They will work if not to busy doing something else.
You do not have to be beat to be an abused spouse. Having a Bob in my life would be about all the abuse I could take.
As for reading what Bob is and he explains pretty clearly exactly what that is, his family has probably known this far longer than any one on the forums.
I still think that Bob should be helped along with his quest for fame and recognition.
What he is doing with "alleged victims" should earn him a very special place and I am not referring to the right hand of God where he thinks he is sitting.