If something is wrong, how can it be made right by continuing to whisper about it to others instead of saying it aloud, or by continuing to do it in secret?
Quite obviously a genuine concern for the child was not new, it was brought up by myself as well as others for weeks beforehand, and continues even till today with a new post by another - all to no avail, all ignored, and no moderator intervention.
And yet revealingly... it is not just being whispered about or being done in secret. Posts on this topic continue at present in the public part of the adventtalk forum without editing or removal in contradiction to this expressed concern about the child and the post from "George" forbidding further public discussion.
No words from one admin about any wrongdoing despite "Crystal" and "Tinka"s blatant disregard or non-adherence to that admin mandate. No words that is, except for a post to me from admin "George" regarding posts here on 3atalk days after multiple posts were made and the discussion continued there, both in private and in public on adventtalk....
Ian, you acted upset that this topic was being discussed in public. I was concerned out it too and moved the topic into a private board. I see that over on your site you and others are still discussing it publicly and keeping posts now on this private area public over on your site.
anyway...
The last post to be hidden before the announced concern is below.
I myself, although I can't say why or how at this time, ( and I really do want to do so) believe this is true as I have had it confirmed by 3 different sources who are very credible "to me".
I know... that bites and is not proof for any another, and I wouldn't accept that from most either.
But then again those with the slander have proved nothing, nada, zero, zilch, zip either, and in a fair, righteous and just world all are innocent till proven guilty.... It is my hope and prayer that none will accept what anonymous accusers say, or believe evil of another or even want to do so, much less like that kinda thing --- without proof.
The bottom line is, that when the test is, or is not done...
All will know what the truth is and who was lying and who was telling the truth.
So patience... all will be revealed in time.... we actually have a promise about that. ( one which is guaranteed from the Almighty)
Sam wrote: on March 15, 2009, 08:59:47 PMIan wrote:Whatever, Bob... please post proof that Danny had a adulterous affair and fathered the child, either publicly on this forum or privately to me by email. Continuing these word games, pretended innocent questions, insinuations, and accusations without proof is NOT christian.Bob Pickle wrote:If you don't know what a birth date has to do with the question of whether a child was born during or before or after a marriage, then you really ought not to be commenting about any of this.Ian wrote:
What belief are you talking about? and how is it wrong? What does that have to do with DS? And if it doesn't why are you putting Brandy's past under a microscope?
I would think any five year old knows that when a birth date is shows whether a child was born during or before or after a marriage. But, we learn new things everyday, don't we?
IF you can, or will do neither? then GIVE IT UP.
and btw... are you still claiming you won't need to apologise for saying this is "potentially true", if the paternity test proves it is not a possiblity?
Ian, I have to hand it to you for even trying to sort out Bob's "not so sly" innuendos, twists, turns detours and all the other things he has tried to throw in here. He is certifiable and everyone knows it. His deceit knows no bounds. Even when it comes to things like questioning Crystal if she knows if DS took a paternity test...... Again, I have already stated that Bob knows different. Bob can go to the source that made the accusation and she will tell him she hasn't made the arrangements yet. Questions?
1. Is the source someone "in the know"?
A. No. It is a person whom Linda contacted with her tales of woe.
2. Did this person contact Danny about Linda's accusations?
A. Yes
3. Did Danny address those same accusations?
A. Yes.
4. Why did Danny communicate with this person when he would never give Pickle or Joy the time of day?
A. Because at one time he respected this person and the help they offered in a serious life & death situation.
5. Did this person know Danny & Linda intimately?
A. No. The contact with Danny & Linda was much more on a professional level instead of a personal level.
6. Did this person have any eye witness account, any phone bills, travel bills, personal accounts or any kind of proof whatsoever to back up her accusations?
A. No.
7. Then where did she get this particular accusation?
A. She says she knows it in her own mind and no one can change her thinking.
8. Why did Danny volunteer a DNA test?
A. Because of the answer to #7.
9. This person wanted to come to Southern Il and "oversee" the testing procedure so has that been done?
A. No. Though she said she wanted to do it quickly her "research" for testing has stretched into 2 months.
10. Has this person kept in contact with Linda?
A. Yes.
11. Does Linda know that the accusation isn't possible?
A. Yes but will let her friend be out all the expense to come to SI and do the testing just so you all can play with it for awhile before it is proven untrue.
12. With a friend like that, who needs enemies?
A. No one.
13. Is there copies of all the emails between this person and Danny with the promises on both sides to keep their end of the bargain?
A. Yes.
14. If this person backs out When Danny is more than willing, will it become public knowledge?
A. Absolutely.
15. If the DNA test is done and DS turned out to be the father, would that become public knowledge?
A. Absolutely.
16. Is this a risk of any kind for Danny?
A. Absolutely not.
17. Is this a risk for Linda?
A. Absolutely as she will lose her friend and confidante when the person realizes she was only being used to, once again, try and bring down Danny.
18. Will this little internet group look foolish?
A. Of course when they go back and look at how they jumped on yet another bit of gossip and deceit by Pickle and friends.
19. How does Pickle know anything about it?
A. Linda told him...either accurately and Pickle made it inaccurate or Linda told him inaccurately and he is repeating it. If she told the truth, Pickle knows the person supposedly setting up the test has not done so yet.
20. If Pickle knows the truth then why does he keep asking if Danny has taken it and also said he "heard" that Danny was a no show?
A. Because Pickle has never cared about the truth and would paint his own mother to be a criminal if he thought he would get 5 minutes of fame.