The one thing is that I do respect that everyone feels equally passionate about their position. I guess I am still in most areas on Admin mode, and not really taking sides, becuase I guess I have seen to much of the "dark side of the force" in both camps.
Steffan you just admitted to no liking BSDA, I can't get angry at you about that, because I realize that you dont' have to like BSDA. You were there for a specific reason and then you left............it served a purpose for a season of your life and now it is over. It is what it is. Over on AT the same thing. It served a purpose for them and when it ceased to serve that purpose they left. Rarely are users happy the used when they stop them from using. So, they are mad because Calvin shut them down. I dont'thave to waste my energy being angry. I promise he is not wasting one bit of energy on it. Their words mean nothing to him, or me. Even their agnry words. For my part since they aint' paying no bills in my house, they are wasting breath they will need later in life. How chilldish would I look walking aorund taking aobut "You aint' my firend no more.........waaaahhh! Come on now. We are all grown right. That goes for those here at 3Atalk, too. It just ain't that serious.
One other thing, is tjat God works in myterious ways. I did make friends....from both sides.....really weird. Now the thing is you have to mature enough in your friendship to know that there are going to be things about which you don't agree. Agree to disagree and keep it moving. Danny's mess is definitely not enough for me to kill friendships. He does not have that much power over my life. My temperment is one Taht I dont' need friends, but I treasure true friends. And I know what true friends look like............
steffan wrote:When we "rant" on this site, we do it with proof.
And when we start dishing out sleaze and slime like they do, then we will be on equal footing.
I still feel the same way about bsda because of the sleaze and slime that is still visible there. Or are you calling "fictional" work like "The Televangelist" appropriate material for bsda? You (and I mean the management/moderating team at bsda) enabled them to post sleaze and slime and still preserve it.If that came through like I was telling you what to do, then I will clarify. I made an observation that the choices were clear. My thinking on this is - you attack my friends, then you are no friend of mine.princessdi wrote:I did catch a good portion of the rantings and ravings on this site. So Basically, both sites are on equally footing still, and we knew how you ALL really felt about BSDA long before most you left.A good question is why do you feel the authority even tell me I have to make any kind of choices?